Wow, simply wow, I haven't read the first post anyway but I do read all else information. It's unbelievably ignorant reaction from some broker here no matter how you put it. Somebody can simply steal money from account and that's it basically.
You should understand that it takes only a few days for you to get the reply from the withrawal response. But I dont understand why most companies do not like to allow a partner to withdraw. You should understand that once you ask for withdrawal, your account can either hacked or blocked. This is never fair surely.